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Are you nuts???
Megha , New Delhi: Sep 24 2008
Made Popular Sep 27 2008
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Are you nuts??? You will be getting married to this stranger? What do you know about him?? With just two meetings, you could decide that he was perfect to be your life partner?? My conscious was constantly asking these questions, while I was staring back at my own image in the mirror. Yes, you guessed it right; my marriage had been arranged by my parents.

The boy seemed to be nice, and the family seemed to be sober. What else can a father ask for his daughter? My dad was really excited about this alliance. My mother on the other hand was equally happy about this relationship! But, I guess this happiness was also shadowed by the future questions being posed to her for her daughter’s life.

Well, what to do but? You can’t decide upon a person until you stay with him, until you talk to him for hours, until you spend some valuable time with him! But, this was only possible when we got married! So, I was left with no other option than to await for my future to unfold itself with this stranger.

But yes there were still some question. Would he prove to be a good husband? Would we be able to lead a good married life? Would he understand my aspirations to fly in the sky, as far as my career is concerned? Would he be a friend to me? Above all, would I be able to love him??

Well, after seven months of my marriage, I can proudly say that I have got the most loving person as my husband! He is my best fiend, my confidante, my lover and everything! I Love him for everything that he does for me!!!

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1 Stars
Great....I guess every girl have these fears. why only girls, what about boys. I would also like to know how your husband felt just before the marriage.
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Deepa
mumbai, India
Hey Megha, guess every girl goes thru this turmoil before settling for a relationship in arranged marriage.
However even when you marry the person of your choice, that is love marriage, these questions still rule your mind - Would he prove to be a good husband? Would we be able to lead a good married life?
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Vijay
Kota, India
Its sure you are not,because your knot is
tied with the right person.Its luck,which plays,the main role in your life.Arranged marriages are still the most successful one.
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Deepa
mumbai, India
Hi Vijay I refuse to agree on the point that arrange marriages are most successful ones.
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Vijay
Kota, India
Oh..Deepa,mine was arranged,she’s Maharashtrian[Raj Thakre fame]from Pune.Its not the matter of ”2”,there are so many factors.In present scenerio,I’ll even recomond to have complete,medical checkup before finalising anything.When you buy a small item from the market,you goes through even minute details of making.Life is a big decision,so its better to involve parents and if possible use a detective[expert opinion of Rameshji req] also.
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Deepa
mumbai, India
I am living in the most successful love marriage relationship. How does that make your arranged setup better?
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Jay
Mumbai, India
You put an interesting aspect of arrange marriage there.

Good for you to find a nice guy.

Its tough to make a decision after meeting someone once or twice.
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